Measuring Progress

A common question I get from men in the recovery process is, “I’m not acting out, so how can I show my wife I’m making progress?” To which I usually follow with a question, “How do you know when you’re making progress?”

If you can’t point to progress, something other than just having “not acted out”, then what is she supposed to look at? Shelley and I put together a short video about this as part of our KitchenConvos video course. You can watch the Measuring Progress video here –

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