TRUSTBUILDER MASTERCLASS
FOR MEN
How We Approach Building Trust:
1.
First, we have to develop the mindset towards trust building:
That trust is built so she can feel safety, security and significance, not so we can feel better.
2.
Next, we have to develop the right heart attitude towards trust building:
For too many of us our heart is tender towards our wife but harsh towards her inability to trust us and frustrated at the lack of progress. We can change that!
We have to question our motivation:
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3.
We need a format (not a formula) and a plan for engaging trustbuilding.
We’ll help you build a plan around secondary threats/boundaries that includes 4 components:
a. Offsetting Fear
b. Character Traits
c. Wholistic Intimacy
d. How She Needs Us to Engage Her
4.
We’ll help you identify & address the resistance we all feel in the process.
When is it?
The class is a 4-week commitment and meets all of the following days:
Tuesday, May 12th 2026 | 5:15pm - 6:30pm CST
Tuesday, May 19th 2026 | 5:15pm - 6:30pm CST
Tuesday, May 26th 2026 | 5:15pm - 6:30pm CST
Tuesday, June 2nd 2026 | 5:15pm - 6:30pm CST
Who is it for?
Men committed to restoring trust after betrayal.
How is it hosted?
Live Webinar
This means you’ll need to be sitting in front of your computer/tablet/device (ideally not a phone because it will be too difficult to see the diagrams), with audio and video enabled, free from distraction or other commitments. This is not a “call in and listen” situation, where you can participate on your commute or while engaged in other activities.
What’s expected of you:
Complete the homework assigned.
Engage with a willing heart and be open to suggestions for trust building.
Whats expected of us:
Employing a No Shame Zone: everyone is safe to share without judgement
Teaching you what you need to know and not a bunch of extra overwhelming information
Give you tools for practical application
To the best of our ability, nuance the concepts to fit your unique situation
Investment
$500
Privacy & Confidentially: The classes are educational, group events and. we cannot guarantee your privacy or confidentiality during this class. You understand that participating in the class is at your own risk.
DISCLAIMER
There are no quick-fixes. Rebuilding trust takes dedication and perseverance. It's a process. We’ll give you the tools and show you how to use them, but you have to do the work!
Who is teaching?
Meet Thomas Berry, RLCC
In 2012, after a decade of marriage, a successful career, two children with another on the way my double life of sexual addiction came to light. I was out of control. The process of finding freedom instantly became the fight of and for my life. Now, 8 years after being found out, I am celebrating a life and marriage better than I could have ever imagined; built on the foundation of Jesus, with an awakened heart and pursuit of integrity. For the past several years, I have been walking with other men helping them along their journey towards sexual integrity. I work full time as a Redemptive Living Certified Coach and also have been in a pastoral role at Grace Fellowship in Paducah, KY for the past two years. I’m committed to helping other men who have struggled with sexual integrity issues live the life God intended through doing the hard work of recovery.