Trustworthy University
Our flagship program to help couples find redemption after betrayal. Designed to accelerate the recovery journey and address the most important aspects of the process. Our work is rooted in Empathy, Intimacy & Integrity.
Intimacy
Empathy
Integrity
Everything we do involves weaving these into the fabric of the relationship. These rebuild trust, develop security and create connection.
TrustworthyU is an intensive and comprehensive program. We deliver our services in a combination of 3 formats, each contributing to the overall goal of marital restoration.
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Live Teaching Calls
Weekly live teaching webinars include everyone in the TU program. Jason is teaching about the core concepts, the big-ticket issues that contribute to success or detract from the process, and the critical elements of healing the relationship.
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Traditional Sessions
Traditional sessions are where we meet to work on the specifics of your situation. These are what most people would think of as a typical coaching session.
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Accountability & Implementation
We want to quality control the accountability relationships you are experiencing while in the program. To that end, we'll work together to decide which is best for you; a weekly individual accountability call with one of our coaches, or a weekly, professionally led group call.
Core Principles:
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We believe that redemption is available through Jesus, and that healing relationships are one of His primary objectives. We operate on practical application of Biblical principles that facilitate progressive sanctification.
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We operate from a coaching model, not a counseling model. This means we are much more directive than reflective. It also means we'll need to understand how the past affects the present, but we'll spend more time on practical application in the present to change the future.
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We believe in redemption, not just restoration. We're aiming to help you develop a new relationship, not just salvage an old one.
Roles in Redemption:
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We look at the wife's role as threefold:
1) Listener/Learner - As a wife you'll be listening to what and how your husband processes what he's learning, and will be included in the conversations so you aren't left in the dark..
2) Consultant - For many wives they simultaneously feel like their husband is an unknown entity and also know him better than he's knows himself. We want you to be consultant to the process.
3) Wife - When we actually do marital work, we'll help guide you on what healthy boundaries are, voicing needs and healthy grieving.
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We're going to put 90% of the pressure (sometimes 100%) on the husband and 10% on the wife. And hers won't come for quite some time.
The premise is that the husband has to lead the process of change, model what transformation looks like, and create a safe space for relational healing to occur. All this has to happen before a wife can feel safe enough to re-engage and risk her heart.